Every country has its own way of celebrating joy and happiness at weddings. But a Moroccan wedding tells an exceptional story of rich culture and ancient heritage. This spectacular story begins and ends with traditional music, relentless dancing, and plenty of scrumptious food and fancy gifts. This obviously isn’t enough to describe how a Moroccan wedding truly goes. So, let’s walk you through all the details of Moroccan weddings from the start until the end. Are you ready?
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Drib Sdak day
What you need to know is that Marriage traditions in Morocco are quite different from conventional popular marriage culture. According to the Moroccan marriage customs, wedding vows should be conducted before the day of the wedding day. Drib Sdak is when both the groom and the bride sign their marriage contract called “Akd”. Signing the marriage contract requires the presence of both the man and woman, their family, and an “Adoul”, a religious man who has the legal right to conclude marriages.
Usually, the day of “Drib Sdak” is also a small celebration that includes mostly close family members and friends of both the groom and the bride to be.
Before the wedding
After Drib Sdak the couple is both religiously and officially married. Both families will now start the preparations for their colorful wedding day. In the Moroccan wedding traditions, the bride arranges a big celebration before the wedding day in her parents’ house. The groom and his family are invited and they must bring gifts including clothes, jewelry, and sweets to the bride and her family. The celebration lasts about 8 to 10 hours. At the end of the day, the groom’s family leaves to get ready for the welcome day. The wedding day.
Moroccan wedding customs
The Moroccan wedding celebration used to be seven days long but now the game has been somewhat shortened to a mere three-day celebration. This last celebration is when the bride moves from her parent’s house to start a new chapter of her life with her husband. While there is no standard way of celebrating a Moroccan wedding, I will try to get you as close as possible to the general Moroccan marriage customs and traditions.
Bridal Hammam Ritual
The first day of the celebration is when the bride undertakes a bridal ritual of purification and beauty, a day in the Hammam with her girlfriends. In case you are wondering, a Hammam is a weekly bathing ritual for Moroccans performed in vast steam rooms, usually 3, with different heat temperature settings. During the Hammam, the bride and her companions treat themselves with multiple body masks, scrubs, and massages using multiple Moroccan beauty products. Of course, laughter and gossiping are a part of this relaxation ritual.
The next day is the Henna party. A female gathering of friends and relatives for the Henna ceremony. On this day all the young females have henna designs tattooed on their hands and feet. Henna is long considered a symbol of fertility, luck, and happiness in Morocco. The Henna party is always accompanied by chants and dances. The woman that does the henna “Nekkasha” is usually a Henna specialist who knows how to choose quality henna but most importantly how to draw beautiful designs for the bride and her friends.
The wedding celebration day
The celebration generally happens in a rented venue or in a massive tent set up on the roof of a house or out in the street, why not. On the day of the wedding, the guests gather at the venue. The men are dressed in suits and the women in colorful Takshitas. Takshita is like a Kaftan, a traditional Moroccan garment for women, worn for happy occasions and celebrations such as weddings.
The guests are served Moroccan tea and sweets while waiting for the bride and the groom’s charming entrance. The awaited couple enter the venue followed by the chants of the Neggafates, the master planners of the wedding party. During the day, the bride changes into several outfits that can go up to seven different changes. The outfits usually represent different parts and cultures of Morocco such as Berber, Fassi, and Sahrawi outfits. The groom usually wears a tuxedo and later changes into a traditional Moroccan outfit called Jabadour.
One of the most famous traditions at a Moroccan wedding is Amaria tour, a special treat for the couple on their wedding night. Both the bride and the groom are carried in two beautifully ornamented seats called Amria or Mida and lifted up by the 4 people, while traditional Moroccan music is played in the background. The bride puts on the “Labssa fassia” a beautiful Fassi outfit specifically for the Amaria tour.
Before the ceremony comes to a close, the bride and the groom make the final outfit change. The bride puts on a normal white occidental wedding dress, while the groom changes back into the tuxedo he wore earlier. The couple shares their last dance of the wedding, cut the cake, and take pictures with their friends and family. After the party, the happy couple leaves on a parade to the groom’s house. The groom’s family will be waiting for them with milk and dates wishing them a peaceful and sweet life.
What to wear to a Moroccan wedding as a guest?
If you are invited to a Moroccan wedding and wonder if you should dress up or not, I would tell you you should. Female guests usually wear Takshtas, like the bride. Of course, the bride’s outfits are fancier as she is supposed to be the main focus of the party. The Moroccan Takshita can be quite expensive if you intend to buy a new one. The good news is, you can also rent it for the day. Many traditional attire shops across the country provide this service at affordable prices. For men, a suit will be highly recommended to wear as a guest.
Moroccan wedding music
Music is the fuel of every Moroccan wedding. It keeps it alive and going. There are many options that families go for when choosing the music for their wedding. They can either hire a band to perform live during the wedding or a DJ which is less expensive. Both the band and the DJ have to play the traditional Moroccan songs Chaabi (Moroccan Pop Music). The Chaabi is good for dancing and entertaining the guests. They also have to play some Andalousi music which is ideal for the bride’s outfit entrances.
What food do they serve at a Moroccan wedding?
Celebratory sweets and tea are distributed to the guests during the day. Dinner comes right after the entrance of the bride and the groom. Commonly, people serve a three-course meal on wedding days. The course starts with grilled chicken, lemon, and olives as an appetizer -It’s obviously not an appetizer… Then the main course which consists of tender lamb sweetened with prunes. The dessert would be a full plate of seasonal fruits or “Seffa” (a sort of sweet-dish served with grilled almonds on top). Sometimes they serve both, out of generosity.
What are your thoughts about the many aspects and dresses of the traditional Moroccan wedding?