Moroccan weddings: All You Need to Know!

by Fay

The wedding is a very important celebration in Moroccan culture. It is a celebration of the age-old union of man and wife. The institution of marriage is highly celeberated and respected in Amazigh culture and according to Islamic tradition. Therefore, the Moroccan wedding is the celebration that is taken very seriously.

Every country has its own way of celebrating joy and happiness at weddings. But a Moroccan wedding tells an exceptional story of rich culture and ancient heritage. This spectacular story begins and ends with traditional music, relentless dancing, and plenty of scrumptious food and fancy gifts.

This obviously isn’t enough to describe how a Moroccan wedding truly goes. So, let’s walk you through all the details of Moroccan weddings from the start until the end. Are you ready?

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Before the wedding

Legal requirements

In this chapter we will outline the legal requirements for a foreign national to get married to a Moroccan citizen in Morocco. This special case can be very complicated and depends on several factors. We will try our best to cover each scenario.

Required documents

Firstly, be warned that you will need a shipload of documents before you can even think about getting married in Morocco. We have attached a list here to give you an idea.

An Affidavit of Nationality and Eligibility to Marry: this document states that you are not currently married and can be applied for through your embassy of consulate in Morocco.

Drib Sdak day

Moroccan marriage

What you need to know is that Marriage traditions in Morocco are quite different from conventional popular marriage culture. According to the Moroccan marriage customs, wedding vows should be conducted before the day of the wedding day. Drib Sdak is when both the groom and the bride sign their marriage contract called “Akd”. Signing the marriage contract requires the presence of both the man and woman, their family, and an “Adoul”, a religious man who has the legal right to conclude marriages.

Usually, the day of “Drib Sdak” is also a small celebration that includes mostly close family members and friends of both the groom and the bride-to-be.

Before the wedding

Moroccan traditional wedding customs

After Drib Sdak the couple is both religiously and officially married. Both families will now start the preparations for their colorful wedding day. In the Moroccan wedding traditions, the bride arranges a big celebration before the wedding day in her parents’ house.

The groom and his family are invited and they must bring gifts including clothes, jewelry, and sweets to the bride and her family. The celebration lasts about 8 to 10 hours. At the end of the day, the groom’s family leaves to get ready for the welcome day. The wedding day.

Where a Moroccan wedding is usually held?

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The Moroccan wedding is usually held in private venues in big cities. Sometimes, Moroccan families living in traditional areas in Morocco set a venue in their rooftops or backyard if they have enough space.

Moroccan Wedding Customs

Moroccan wedding

The Moroccan wedding celebration used to be seven days long but now the game has been somewhat shortened to a mere three-day celebration. This last celebration is when the bride moves from her parent’s house to start a new chapter of her life with her husband.

While there is no standard way of celebrating a Moroccan wedding, I will try to get you as close as possible to the general Moroccan marriage customs and traditions.

1. Bridal Hammam Ritual

Moroccan Hammam
Moroccan Hammam

The first day of the celebration is when the bride undertakes a bridal ritual of purification and beauty, a day in the Hammam with her girlfriends. In case you are wondering, a Hammam is a weekly bathing ritual for Moroccans performed in vast steam rooms, usually 3, with different heat temperature settings.

During the Hammam, the bride and her companions treat themselves with multiple body masks, scrubs, and massages using multiple Moroccan beauty products. Of course, laughter and gossiping are a part of this relaxation ritual.

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2. Henna Party

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A bride with Moroccan Henna

The next day is the Henna party. A female gathering of friends and relatives for the Henna ceremony. On this day all the young females have henna designs tattooed on their hands and feet. Henna is long considered a symbol of fertility, luck, and happiness in Morocco.

The Henna party is always accompanied by chants and dances. The woman that does the henna “Nekkasha” is usually a Henna specialist who knows how to choose quality henna but most importantly how to draw beautiful designs for the bride and her friends.

3. The Wedding Day

The Neggafa is preparing the bride for her next next change of outfit

The celebration generally happens in a rented venue or in a massive tent set up on the roof of a house or out in the street, why not. On the day of the wedding, the guests gather at the venue. The men are dressed in suits and the women in colorful Takshitas. Takshita is like a Kaftan, a traditional Moroccan garment for women, worn for happy occasions and celebrations such as weddings.

The guests are served Moroccan tea and sweets while waiting for the bride and the groom’s charming entrance. The awaited couple enter the venue followed by the chants of the Neggafates, the master planners of the wedding party.

During the day, the bride changes into several outfits that can go up to seven different ones. The outfits usually represent different parts and cultures of Morocco such as Berber, Fassi, and Sahrawi outfits. The groom usually wears a tuxedo and later changes into a traditional Moroccan outfit called Jabadour.

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A bride wearing “Labssa Fassia” while enjoying the Amaria tour

One of the most famous traditions at a Moroccan wedding is Amaria tour, a special treat for the couple on their wedding night. Both the bride and the groom are carried in two beautifully ornamented seats called Amria or Mida and lifted up by the 4 people sometimes 6, while traditional Moroccan music is played in the background. The bride puts on the “Labssa fassia” a beautiful Fassi outfit specifically for the Amaria tour.

Before the ceremony comes to a close, the bride and the groom make the final outfit change. The bride puts on a normal white occidental wedding dress, while the groom changes back into the tuxedo he wore earlier. The couple shares their last dance of the wedding, cuts the cake, and takes pictures with their friends and family.

After the party, the happy couple leaves on a parade to the groom’s house. The groom’s family will be waiting for them with milk and dates wishing them a peaceful and sweet life.

What to Wear to a Moroccan Wedding as a Guest?

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If you are invited to a Moroccan wedding and wonder if you should dress up or not, I would tell you you should. Female guests usually wear Takshitas, like the bride. Of course, the bride’s outfits are fancier as she is supposed to be the main focus of the party.

The Moroccan Takshita can be quite expensive if you intend to buy a new one. The good news is, you can also rent it for the day. Many traditional attire shops across the country provide this service at affordable prices. For men, a suit or a classy shirt will be highly recommended to wear as a guest.

Moroccan wedding music

moroccan wedding music

Music is the fuel of every Moroccan wedding. It keeps it alive and going. There are many options that families go for when choosing the music for their wedding. They can either hire a band to perform live during the wedding or a DJ which is less expensive.

Both the band and the DJ have to play the traditional Moroccan songs Chaabi (Moroccan Pop Music). The Chaabi is good for dancing and entertaining the guests. They also have to play some Andalousi music which is ideal for the bride’s outfit entrances.

What food do they serve at a Moroccan wedding?

Moroccan grilled chicken with olives and preserved lemon
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Lamb Meat with Prunes and Nuts

Celebratory sweets and tea are distributed to the guests during the day. Dinner comes right after the entrance of the bride and the groom sometimes later. Commonly, people serve a three-course meal on wedding days.

The course starts with grilled chicken, lemon, and olives as an appetizer -It’s obviously not an appetizer… Then the main course consists of tender lamb sweetened with prunes. The dessert would be a full plate of seasonal fruits or “Seffa” (a sort of sweet dish served with grilled almonds on top). Sometimes they serve both, out of generosity.

For fancier and more modern wedding, they serve Pastilla as well, a stuffed filo pastery. Chicken and seafood stuffings are very common.

Should you take a gift to a Moroccan wedding?

If you are a close friend or a family visitor, a gift is kinda required when attending a Moroccan wedding. However, you aren’t required to bring the gift on the day of the wedding party as it might be a little awkward to give it in front of the visitors. You would rather give it outside the party situation, before or after.

Depending on what you think the newly married couple woul like, your gift might be houseware, clothes, perfume, or gold if you want to go that far.

If you are invited to a Moroccan wedding but you are not really close to the family, the gift is not required but it would be a nice gesture if you take something small like flowers, or chocolates.

The Historic Moroccan Wedding Tradition: Blood Cloth

You’ve probably heard about this ancient Moroccan wedding tradition. Morocco is a Muslim country and having sex before marriage is considered (Haram) prohibited. Therefore, Moroccans used to verify and prove the virginity of the bride on the morning of the wedding night by showing a white cloth that contains her virginity bloodstains.

This custom was and still important for Moroccans to protect the girl’s honor in front of her family and her husband’s family. So, don’t be surprised if you see people dancing with a white cloth with blood strains. Even though many people still celebrate this historic tradition, it is no longer present as it was in the past.

What are your thoughts about the many aspects and dresses of the traditional Moroccan wedding?

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6 comments

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Hana March 14, 2021 - 2:57 pm

How and what the process and ceremony if the wedding will be between Filipina (Christian) and Moroccan?

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Fay March 14, 2021 - 3:39 pm

Hey Hana, the wedding ceremony will be more or less the same. It depends on whether the families want a big wedding or a small one. The religion or nationally won’t really change how things are done in wedding ceremonies.

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shamsa alsahwa June 29, 2021 - 2:57 pm

how is the writer?

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SuSamira July 9, 2021 - 5:38 am

Hi!
I would like to ask about “Moroccans used to verify and prove the virginity of the bride on the morning of the wedding night by showing a white cloth that contains her virginity bloodstains.”

What is “THE” wedding night? Is it after they made marriage legal, or after henna party, or is it after the big wedding party day?

Thank you so much for this info, I really liked a lot! <3

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Fay July 12, 2021 - 11:04 am

Hello,

First, the wedding ceremony is always after the legal (official) marriage is done. Henna party is a small party the bride organizes at her parents’ house. It is similar to a bridal shower in other countries. The wedding night is usually the ceremony where the bride leaves her parents’ house for her husband’s. Some families decide to have one big wedding night while others decide to have 2 wedding nights. One at the bride’s house and then after a week or so a second wedding night at the groom’s house. So, the virginity check will be at the groom’s wedding party (last one).

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